Originally posted on my Subspeak blog.
So I was thinking again – something I really shouldn’t do too much of in public because my mind wanders to the most inappropriate places – and I started thinking about porn. It was also brought up in a conversation with a rigger who I met online who ‘trawls’ porn sites looking for decent bondage videos.
Now I have nothing against porn as the people who make it have the right to do so and if others don’t like it, then they shouldn’t be watching it.
The thing I was really thinking about was how fake it can all become.
Porn scenes end up being just too perfect.
Sex is meant to be messy and awkward and emotive.
You are meant to fall over. You are meant to laugh at yourselves when you make an awkward noise. You are meant to bang your knee…
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